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Socoder -> Health Matters -> The Big C

Posted : Thursday, 27 September 2018, 11:47
Pakz

The Big C


My stepfather was in the hostpital a lot in the last month or so. He had a gal blather infection and this was removed. He stayed sick and had a scan yesterday. Today the results were in. There were spots on his lungue and my mother told me it already spread through his body.

I am not sure what wil happen next. I hope he wil get better but I am not sure he wil.
Posted : Thursday, 27 September 2018, 11:59
steve_ancell

Posted : Thursday, 27 September 2018, 13:53
Jayenkai
Fuck.
Sending you and your family the best of wishes.

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Posted : Thursday, 27 September 2018, 14:53
rockford
Cancer is a cunt. Sending best wishes to you and your family.
Posted : Saturday, 06 October 2018, 04:48
Pakz
Well, yesterday we found out he has been given up on. One week after the doctors finding the cancer. My mother has been visiting every day from morning to late in the evening. She is getting him home for the last period. He has maybe a couple of weeks but it can happen any day. My mother said he might not be able to speak anymore today(cancer going to the brain) but I just spoke to him on the phone.

This is only the third family member I am loosing in my life. My grandfather I barely knew( I was young), my grandmother a lot better. My stepfather I knew a lot better since I am disabled, as he is aswel so I was at their place almost every day since 2011.
Posted : Saturday, 06 October 2018, 05:24
Jayenkai
So sorry to hear that.
*hugs*
Posted : Saturday, 06 October 2018, 11:10
rockford

Posted : Saturday, 06 October 2018, 11:25
Krakatomato
My father died of cancer when I was 18yrs old. I helped my brother and my sister through it along with my mum. Sadly, a strong 18yr old lad has to fail at some point and I really went pear-shaped. Make sure everybody takes care of each other and watch for those that might seem OK at first. I ended up with PTSD for a VERY long time. Today, there's more charities that will help you through it and I thoroughly recommend that you and family seek them out.

Take care chap and really really sorry to hear the news.

//Andy
Posted : Saturday, 06 October 2018, 15:05
Pakz
My mother said she was going to get help from social services to deal with it all. They should know how to get things done. The hospital has a person for helping with getting a patient home and enabling every thing needed(neighboorhood nursing etc) Also my stepfather and his stepmother bought of their funeral insurance a couple of years ago so that is going to be a challenge getting the grave and stone and service done, but I have a lot of savings so can help with that. His stepmother died earlier this year also.

I am taking care of the pets and doing the shopping and cooking and cleaning. Today the washing machine at my parents really! flooded their kitchen. I can not see the problem since the water is coming from behind the kitchen closets(sewer drain?) We need to get that fixed also. I used a couple of bottles of that unstopper but it has not helped.

It is going to be a while before things are to a more normal state here.
Posted : Monday, 08 October 2018, 18:00
Pakz
My stepfather past away It went all very fast. Tomorow begins the whole road of taking care of things. I found a checklist of the government that will be of use.
Posted : Monday, 08 October 2018, 18:10
Jayenkai
Fuck, that was fast.
Sorry to hear. Send thoughts and hugs to all.

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Posted : Tuesday, 09 October 2018, 01:02
rockford
R.I.P.
Posted : Tuesday, 09 October 2018, 01:23
steve_ancell
Let's hope that cancer gets cancer and withers away. Hugs going out to you and your family.
Posted : Tuesday, 09 October 2018, 17:11
therevillsgames
So sorry to hear about your lost Mr Pakz

My Dad also died from cancer a few years ago (bowel cancer)...